I told my husband that I bet his life will be much easier if he married a hijabi who cooks & clean instead of this messy, worrier & crier old me and he told me straight out that even he never think of that (😂), that if he wants all that stuff he should just find a maid instead. Now as teenager these days said green flag; green forest etc but that is a green world, y’all. That right there is a whole green world. Because he knows that a wife is so much more than just a domestic wife, right? That a wife is also a person herself with her dislikes; aspirations; dreams & such. 👱🏻♂️ : “You’ve been a very great support to me & to our child. That’s all that matters.” said husband and I thank God that my better half is that wonderful man. Because if a wife burns out then the whole family burns out with her, you know? That is how important a wife/mother is for the family. If the mother is astray then the family is, too. If the mother lost her laugh then the family’ll lost...
Is there such thing as a “good sad”? And no, it’s not a play of words. The word popped in my mind just now and well, it’s pretty intriguing. Some says a “good sad” is like a memorabilia or bittersweet memories or else but the word that I’m looking for is probably melancholy. Why is melancholy a good sad, you wonder? Isn’t it necessarily a bad thing? What good will melancholy do? Melancholy : “A feeling of thoughtful sadness.” The thoughtful part is quite a contrary from “Sadness without a definite cause”, right? one is thoughtful while the other is mindless sadness. But both definitions talk about the same thing, that melancholy is a “feeling”. And having a feeling is good. It’s great. That means that you are still connected to the outside world and being connected is wonderful. It means that there is still hope for things to get better, some things that will either come from yourself or from others. Sooner or later some lights will shine and the grass will grow. Even melancholy can’t ...